I started to build my Tribute to Emily Hardstaff today. because it was Thirty years ago today my dearest Mum (Emily Hardstaff) passed away, I miss her so much & think about her almost everyday, she was a great Mum, one of the best. Beyond all lessons beyond the model she provided, my mother gave me a parents ultimate gift: She made me feel lovable & good,. She paid attention: she listened: she remembered what I said, she did not think me perfrct, but she accepted me, without qualification.